Have
a conversation with a partner and tell them what you need and then
he/she
will give you a way to get it. This is different from just giving it to
you. The tree did not just hand the boy money, she told him a way to be
able to do get what he wanted. Then change roles. If you do
not have a partner think of the problem and solution that could help
solve it.
(example:
the problem is that I want to learn to play the guitar, and a solution
can be for my partner to show me a website where I'll be able to teach
myself.)
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